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San Diego! It’s typically, in my opinion, the kind of place you arrive in and know you’ll want to return. Why? Almost constant sunshine, a laid-back Californian vibe, embraced diversity, but above all… an LGBTQ scene that truly rivals San Francisco or even Los Angeles. You can explore this city as many times as you like. Each time you visit, you’ll discover a new side. Whether you’re coming with family, as a couple, or just chilling solo, San Diego will welcome you.
Here’s a short guide designed to help you travel freely, with or without glitter.
How to get there?
From Los Angeles
If you’re in LA, San Diego is literally a two-hour drive. Interstate 5 will take you straight south, and frankly, you’ll enjoy a pleasant ride, especially along the coast. If you don’t have a car, the Amtrak train is, I promise you, a real gem: comfortable seats, ocean views, and a direct arrival in the city center. For a quick getaway, it’s ideal.
From Las Vegas
From this city, you have two choices: road or plane. The road will take you 5 to 6 hours. If you like driving, this will be a real mini road trip for you.
By air, you’ll save time. Allow 1 hour and 15 minutes for the flight. You’ll also have several flights throughout the day, and they’re generally well priced.
What to do with the family?
San Diego Zoo and San Diego Safari Park
Even if you’re not an animal lover, these two places are truly impressive. The area is immense and particularly committed to conservation. If you’re looking for a day of escape, the San Diego Zoo is a must-see.
The Safari Park, for its part, will transport you to another world. Aboard an open-air vehicle for a guided tour through the park’s plains, you’ll have the pleasure of encountering antelopes, giraffes, and even rhinoceroses. It’s impossible to remain indifferent to these animals roaming in semi-wild conditions.
Birch Aquarium
Located in La Jolla, this small aquarium is perfect for a quiet morning. Tropical fish, hypnotic jellyfish, and breathtaking views of the Pacific Ocean. I assure you, this spot is a true haven of peace.
Maritime Museum
Are you passionate about old ships, history, or even submarines? You’ll love it! This museum is known for its originality and its oh-so-immersive atmosphere. I bet you’ll immediately rediscover your inner child as you climb aboard replicas of old ships. The exhibitions will allow you to discover a world that may not be familiar to you.
Art District
This former naval base has been transformed into a cultural and arty space. Galleries, workshops, cafes, food trucks… The atmosphere is relaxed and family-friendly. You’ll spend an entire afternoon strolling and snacking. Liberty Station is also LGBTQ-friendly and super inclusive.
Old Town San Diego
Want to step back in time? This Californian neighborhood will meet all your expectations. On the agenda? Colonial buildings, mariachi, tacos, and crafts. It’s a bit kitsch, I’ll grant you, but the festive atmosphere and the lights at night will give it a special energy.
California Water Sport: Rent a Boat
You can rent a boat there, with or without a license, for a trip on the bay. Why not bring a picnic on board, listen to soft music, or enjoy the view of the skyline? It’s relaxing and truly accessible. With kids, it’ll be a wonderful adventure; as a couple, it’s a moment that’s definitely romantic.
Coronado Beach
This place is worthy of the most beautiful postcards. Close your eyes and imagine a long white sand beach, calm water, and a breathtaking view of the Hotel del Coronado. The place is extremely clean and family-friendly. You’ll feel right at home, no matter your style. You’ll also have a good chance of running into queer families. So, don’t hesitate!
What to do as a couple?
San Diego Wine Country
An hour’s drive away, Temecula awaits you with its vineyards. Wine lovers will be in heaven. Tasting, strolling among the vines, watching the sunset. I know, it sounds a bit cliché, but it’s so lovely. You probably didn’t know it, but some wineries are run by LGBTQ+ couples, and the welcome will be warm no matter what. You’ll experience a day for two, just the way we all love it!
Public Liberty Market
For this gourmet market, you’ll have to return to Liberty Station. World cuisine, wine bars, and desserts to die for. I should warn you, however, that this covered market is lively, noisy, but super romantic, even more so if you share a plate with someone else. In the evening, the atmosphere becomes more intimate and the people are more open.
California Watersport Kayak
Want to rent a double kayak to paddle along the cliffs? Then head straight to La Jolla to paddle as a couple. If you’re lucky, you might encounter sea lions and even dolphins. This outing is fun, active, and, above all, perfect for creating precious memories together.
Black Beach: The Nudist Beach for Couples
Looking for a combination of nature and freedom? Look no further, Black Beach is for you! Bring sturdy shoes, as this beach is only accessible after a somewhat steep walk. Black’s Beach is naturist, discreet, and known for its LGBTQ community. I recommend this spot for a stress-free, respectful, and welcoming swim.
What LGBTQ-friendly activities are available?
Black’s Beach: The Nudist Beach for LGBT People?
I’m going to stress this here, but Black’s Beach is a true queer spot. The southern corner of this beach is a “safe” space where everyone can truly be themselves. Single men, mixed-race couples, queer people, trans people—everyone coexists in a peaceful atmosphere. Do you like naturism? This spot will be ideal for feeling free!
Bars and nightclubs: Richs, Flicks, and Number One Fifth Avenue
The heart of queer nightlife is Hillcrest! The atmosphere never lets up:
- Rich’s is arguably the most iconic LGBTQ club in San Diego. Inside, it’s a real scene: polished drag shows, hard-hitting DJs, and a crowd that knows why they’re there. In this establishment, you’ll dance your heart out, shine, and let loose! The energy is electric, the looks are polished, and there’s no one to judge you. Want a night where anything is possible? Go for it!
- Flicks is the haunt of fans of uninhibited karaoke, comforting retro music videos, and a more relaxed, but not at all boring, atmosphere. The screens play hits on a loop that are sure to awaken your nostalgic side. The cocktails are also perfectly balanced. As you can see, Flicks has it all;
- Number One Fifth Avenue, for its part, is the ultimate neighborhood bar for San Diego’s LGBTQ+ community. Regulars come here to unwind, meet friends, or meet new people in a truly relaxed atmosphere. Its large terrace is a real plus. You’ll enjoy sitting there in the late afternoon to sip a perfectly balanced cocktail while enjoying the Californian sun.
The Lafayette Hotel: for a drink, lunch, or a stay
The Lafayette is a cult San Diego address that I particularly like because it has been updated without losing its soul. This iconic boutique hotel brilliantly blends the retro elegance of the 1940s with a decidedly queer-friendly, contemporary touch. Its pool has also become a meeting point for the local LGBTQ scene.
You’ll find everything from chic swimsuits to bold looks. The bar prepares creative cocktails that will make as much of an impact as the decor. Whether you’re in the mood for brunch, a drink, or just a relaxing stroll, the establishment is unlikely to disappoint, even if you don’t stay here.
Conclusion
Yes, San Diego is much more than a beach destination! This city truly understands the meaning of diversity and embraces it without any qualms. Whether you come to relax, have fun, or reconnect with yourself, you’ll easily find your place. Solo, as a couple, or as part of a rainbow tribe, this destination is yours, so live it to the fullest.
